- Make it easier for her to leave, not harder. No good will come from making it harder.
- She denied herself to you, in order to clear a runway to him. Now she's moving thousands of miles and waiting three more celibate months to get back to him. If there was a contest, it was obviously over a while ago.
- Don't let it happen twice.
'Don't change your schedule for the sake of a woman' indeed. Interesting source, for that advice.